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*I’m sorry, Robert, how do I know he’s even alive? - apology and first name to seed warmth and prevent bulldozing.

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Tactical empathy - repeating without judgment to gain trust.

Empathy - understading counterpart, without necessarily agreeing. Harvard and FBI agree on this definition.

Decisions are made emotionally. Emotions are always involved.

You want repeat customers. A win-lose situation is not a repeat customer.

Tactics

  • I’m sorry, Robert, how do I know he’s even alive? - apology and first name to seed warmth and prevent bulldozing.