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#Considering others' situtation or feelings
#Considering others' situtation or feelings
#If something is not right, bring up the controversy.
#If something is not right, bring up the controversy.
#[[The Map is Not the Territory]]. Do not assume.
#[[The Map is Not the Territory]]. Do not assume that a person said something even if they said. Look at the larger situation, their position, their body language, their level of self-awareness.
#In a collaborative way.
#Give people an A (from [[The Art of Possibility]]. Do not cast pearls to swine at the same time - ie, allow people to disrespect you by being vulnerable when vulnerability is unwarranted. Know when vulnerability is acceptable, and when it isn't.
#Learn how to read people.

Revision as of 22:58, 2 June 2023

How should people communicate?

  1. Considering one's integrity, and what is right.
  2. Considering others' situtation or feelings
  3. If something is not right, bring up the controversy.
  4. The Map is Not the Territory. Do not assume that a person said something even if they said. Look at the larger situation, their position, their body language, their level of self-awareness.
  5. In a collaborative way.
  6. Give people an A (from The Art of Possibility. Do not cast pearls to swine at the same time - ie, allow people to disrespect you by being vulnerable when vulnerability is unwarranted. Know when vulnerability is acceptable, and when it isn't.
  7. Learn how to read people.