OSE Communication Style: Difference between revisions

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How should people communicate?

Considering one's integrity, and what is right.
Face the brutal facts.
Do not be afraid to lose everything. At best, have cultivate a mindset of having nothing to lose, as that is the key to courage.
Courage is not absence of fear, but doing the right thing in the presence of fear.
Considering others' situtation or feelings
If something is not right, bring up the controversy.
Never split the difference.
You can say harsh words, but with a willingness to repair the situation when you grow or as new information becomes available. Beware of The Map is Not the Territory whne
The Map is Not the Territory. Do not assume that a person said something even if they said. Look at the larger situation, their position, their body language, their level of self-awareness.
In a collaborative way.
Give people an A (from The Art of Possibility. Do not cast pearls to swine at the same time - ie, allow people to disrespect you by being vulnerable when vulnerability is unwarranted. Know when vulnerability is acceptable, and when it isn't.
Learn how to read people.
Ask directly for clarity, do not beat around the bush. Be frank and forthright. Only in a world of scarcity is Strategic Culture to be found.

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 How should people communicate?
 #Considering one's integrity, and what is right.
+#Face the brutal facts.
+#Do not be afraid to lose everything. At best, have cultivate a mindset of having nothing to lose, as that is the key to courage.
+#Courage is not absence of fear, but doing the right thing in the presence of fear.
 #Considering others' situtation or feelings
 #If something is not right, bring up the controversy.
+#Never split the difference.
+#You can say harsh words, but with a willingness to repair the situation when you grow or as new information becomes available. Beware of [[The Map is Not the Territory]] whne
 #[[The Map is Not the Territory]]. Do not assume that a person said something even if they said. Look at the larger situation, their position, their body language, their level of self-awareness.
 #In a collaborative way.
 #Give people an A (from [[The Art of Possibility]]. Do not cast pearls to swine at the same time - ie, allow people to disrespect you by being vulnerable when vulnerability is unwarranted. Know when vulnerability is acceptable, and when it isn't.
 #Learn how to read people.
+#Ask directly for clarity, do not beat around the bush. Be frank and forthright. Only in a world of scarcity is [[Strategic Culture]] to be found.